Swamiji on Relationships

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What is the extent to which conflict in a relationship should be resolved and worked through? How can you tell when arguments signify irreconcilable differences and it's time to go separate ways?

When we recognize arguments are about strategy (i.e. determining the most efficient way to reach our collective goals), then negotiation is definitely recommended. It is necessary at that point to establish rapport, to create a conducive environment to reaffirm our commitment to our ultimate goals, and then search for trades, so each can give and take and feel enhanced by the relationship.

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Submitted by webdev on Fri, 2007-04-20 18:10.